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The Mission

To inspire and help men to become more confident in themselves, their communication, and their goals. I believe finding the right girl, the right partner for your life, helps you build a great life.

Want to learn how to be more confident with women?

Dilan’s book will give you the no-B.S approach to meeting women— without pick-up tactics, online dating, or being a player— so you can meet any girl you want, and actually find one who’s perfect for you.

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Here's How Dilan Can Help


Transform your confidence, social skills, and approach with women.


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Meet Dilan

Dilan Jay has lived 6 lifetimes in one as a writer, singer, actor, award-winning rapper and filmmaker, and CEO of 3 companies. After traveling to 40 countries and performing for thousands, he learned that his natural knack for meeting anyone should be codified and condensed into a book: How To Be More Confident With Women: 7 Easy Steps For The Genuine Guy. His writing spans one book, three scripts, over 1,000 songs and 7 albums with a hit on the U.S. Billboard Charts and a #1 on MTV’s Most Popular Music Videos. A successful entrepreneur and self-made man, Dilan believes that to attain the life you want, you need to build it. He currently resides in Los Angeles with his girlfriend and pets.